I once read this wise saying, “don’t buy things–buy experience”.
Whenever I feel I was withdrawing too much into my self, I remember it.
And try to emulate it—try to make my self feel—experience—as much as possible.
Preferably with other people instead of alone.
Sometimes it didn’t work. Sometimes I just felt even more tired and needed even more alone time than before.
But sometimes—sometimes, I am quite pleased with the result, seeing me pushed me a little forward, giving me that little nudge heaven knows I need to realize, world doesn’t always have to be closed in all around.
In fact, when I saw the photos from a trip to Bogor’s Grand Garden Cafe with my coworkers, I was pleasantly surprise to see the uninhibited joy in my expression. Continue reading →